The countdown is on and your BIG DAY is almost here and it can become a bit overwhelming! You and your loved ones spent a lot of time planning your most special day, so it’s understandable that you want everything to run smoothly. Avoid the stress by being prepared by using these awesome tips and tricks to make your wedding day go as smooth as possible. HAPPY WEDDING PLANNING-Melanie
DEFLECT DAY-OF RESPONSIBILITIES:
All of the planning may be done, but there are plenty of little details that still need to be worked out on the day of your wedding. However, it’s your special day, so let someone else coordinate with your vendors to make sure everything runs smoothly without having to get you involved! Decide on a point person (maybe a bridesmaid, relative or close friend you can trust) and make sure to give your wedding day vendors their contact information for that day so you don’t have to pause getting your makeup done to take a call from your florist!
CONSIDER A DEDICATED DAY-OF COORDINATOR:
With that being said, many argue you really need a professional assistant to get you through the day. From time to time it’s good to have someone check in and let you know what needs to happen next. Being able to rely on a professional, detail-oriented assistant can make your wedding a lot more enjoyable. A lot of all-inclusive reception centers will include a day-of assistant, or you can hire a dedicated third-party coordinator to come in just for the day if you have not hired a wedding planner for your wedding day.
PREPARE A MUST-HAVE SHOT LIST FOR YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER:
Your photographer may have shot hundreds of weddings, but you know best what memories you’ll want to be sure to capture before the day is over. Make sure you list them out and share with your photographer so they can plan properly. It’s also a good idea to have a friend or family member check in with them periodically to see if they need help coordinating things like large group family shots – the photographer may not notice if Uncle Ronny is missing!
DON’T FORGET TO EAT:
Whatever you do, make sure you and your bridal party get something in your stomach before the wedding. The bridal party may be busy running around coordinating last minute details, and brides and grooms often get nervous and avoid eating altogether. It’s a long day of celebration, and not eating can easily lead to feeling queasy and light-headed, or even fainting on the altar! A good, easy idea is to have something like a sandwich platter out while everyone is getting ready.
LET’S TALK ABOUT SHOES.
Ladies, you’ll definitely want to make sure you wear in your brand new heels prior to your wedding day. You don’t want your feet to be aching all night. Also, remember to bring a pair of flats or sandals on the day of the wedding.
WHAT ABOUT THE RESTROOM BREAKS?:
This tip has been passed down for generations! The easiest way to use the restroom in a wedding dress is to sit on the toilet backward, facing the wall. This will allow you (or your bridesmaids) to have more control over your dress. It may sound crazy, but trust us – you’ll thank us for this one later!
PREPARE FOR RAIN:
Let’s face it – it’s southern Georgia, and rain is always a possibility! If you’ll be outside at any point, even if just walking from the car to the entrance of your venue, make sure you check the forecast and pack lots of large umbrellas to keep yourself and your bridal party high and dry if necessary!
CONSIDER A “BUFFER DAY” BEFORE YOUR HONEYMOON:
If you’re planning on heading out for your honeymoon immediately following your wedding, you may want to think twice before booking a flight the next morning! Remember, it’s a long day and regardless of whether you’re imbibing or not, you’ll probably have a little wedding day hangover! Take a day to sleep in late and maybe enjoy brunch with your besties and family members before everyone goes their separate ways. You’ll feel much more relaxed the day of your wedding if you know you don’t have to worry about making it to the airport on time the next morning!
LET IT GO:
No matter how much planning time you put in, remember that things are going to happen on your wedding day that are out of your control. Try not to sweat the small stuff! Keep your focus on why you’re getting married and enjoy the day before it’s over. Trust us – no one will remember that the flowers weren’t the perfect shade of pale pink, or that the candles were in the wrong place!
TAKE A MINUTE TO SOAK IT ALL IN:
This may sound like a given, but don’t forget to spend time with your new husband! Take the time to remember why you’re there: to celebrate this day with the person you love. Grab your newlywed and take it all in – it goes by in a flash!